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If No One in the Boardroom Feels Uncomfortable, Something Is Missing

Let’s be honest. Most directors are not incompetent. They are experienced. Intelligent. Accomplished. And yet… Management assumptions sometimes go unchallenged. I have observed boardrooms where directors were intelligent, experienced, and well-meaning yet management assumptions went insufficiently tested. Let’s examine what really happens. 1. Information Asymmetry Management lives inside the numbers daily. Directors see: • Structured board packs • Curated risk summaries • Refined presentations By the time information reaches the board, it is organized and framed. Challenging assumptions requires time, preparation, and the confidence to interrogate what appears coherent. Not every assumption looks risky on the surface.  2. Social Dynamics in the Boardroom Boards are human systems. They contain: • Strong CEOs • Influential founders • Dominant personalities • Cultural

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Will Any Job Ever Fit You Like Cinderella’s Shoe?

I took a photo today trying to slip into a shoe, and it made me think about careers. Many of us are secretly searching for the Cinderella job.The perfect role.The perfect boss.The perfect environment where everything just fits.The job where you wake up energized and every Monday feels like a celebration.But here is the truth most professionals discover with time.Most careers are not Cinderella shoes.They are more like work boots.You grow into them.You stretch them.You walk through uncomfortable terrain before they start to feel right.The question is not really “Will this job fit me perfectly?”The real question is:“Who am I becoming while doing this work?”Because fulfillment rarely comes from a perfect fit.It comes from growth, purpose, and ownership.And that is the heart of the Thank God

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Too old to start?

We’re out here in bunny ears on a Monday. Please. The business?Start with one small step. The book?One messy page at a time. The podcast?One deep breath and “record.” The class?One decision to show up. None of it begins with certainty.It begins with courage. Too old is loud.But starting is louder. Start the thing. Let’s go.

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You Hate Your Job… But Think Everyone Else Is Winning with “Wash Wash”

You hate your job.Your boss is giving dictatorship vibes.Your dreams are dying slowly.And Sunday nights? They feel like emotional funerals. So you think,“Maybe I should start that business…” But then the economy whispers,“Are you mad? All businesses are closing.” Still, across the street, someone’s business is booming.They’ve got branded shirts. Matching mugs.You’re there thinking,“Is this strategy… or wash wash?” Social Media Doesn’t Help Then Instagram hits you with:“I made 7 figures in 7 days — without lifting a finger!”Or: “I started my car showroom with 500 bob and pure faith.” And suddenly…You’re employed, but also deeply unemployed in the head. Here’s the Truth I told a client this recently—and I’ll tell you too:Yes, things are tough.But not everyone winning is lying.Some people

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When You’re the Boss… and Still Figuring It Out

Let me tell you something nobody warns you about leadership:Sometimes, you get to the top… and still wonder how you got there. I run my own business.And there are days I walk into the office and think, “Wait—am I really the one in charge here?” Because here’s the reality:My team looks to me for answers.For structure. For vision. For strategy.Meanwhile, I’m also learning, unlearning, and—let’s be honest—Googling like the rest of you. Leadership doesn’t come with a manual.It comes with courage, questions, and a lot of pretending not to panic. The Boardroom Moments No One Sees I’ve had moments at Elite Leadership & Governance Center where I had to take a deep breath, walk into a boardroom, and lead a session I finished

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Babies, Burnout & a Master’s Degree

Let me tell you about the time I thought I was Superwoman.Spoiler alert: I was not. I’m Dr. Change, PhD — I teach people how to grow, lead, and show up with boldness in every room they walk into. But before the degrees, the leadership coaching, and the boardrooms, there was a chapter of my life that tested every ounce of my sanity. During my Master’s, I had two babies in 11 months.Even matatus take a breather between trips — but there I was, juggling diapers, deadlines, and toxic bosses like a full-time hustler. Picture this: breastfeeding on one side, holding textbooks on the other, all while working a full-time job. My boss? Let’s just say they gave off serious National

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What Coaching Really Is – The Elite Leadership Way

Let’s clear the airCoaching is NOT therapy.It’s not mentoring.And it’s definitely not motivational speeches and “good vibes only.” At Elite Leadership & Governance Center, coaching is a powerful partnership designed to help you take back your power, move forward, and step into the version of yourself you know you were meant to become. We use a proven framework from the John Maxwell Team—and it’s built on three powerful pillars: 1. Awareness: You Can’t Change What You Won’t Confront You can’t build anything strong on confusion, denial, or nice-sounding lies.This is where we shine a light on your blind spots so you can finally see yourself clearly. We ask questions that cut through the noise: This isn’t about shaming you.It’s about telling

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Your Story Isn’t Over — You’re Just in the Slow Episode

You know those TV shows we grew up on?Like Tahamaki — where the first 20 minutes felt like nothing was happening, just suspicious stares and slow camera zooms.Or Derrick — where you’re halfway through the episode still waiting for him to even leave the office.Then suddenly, the last 5 minutes—BOOM—everything comes together and you’re like, “Ah… that’s why I sat through this.” Yeah… your life is that episode. Right now, you might feel like you’re in the slow build.The part where nothing exciting seems to be happening—You’re working hard, paying bills, networking, sending CVs, perfecting your LinkedIn profile picture—But the big break? The C-suite? The dream business?Still nowhere in sight. Here’s the thing: Your story is not done.You’re just in the setup phase before the plot twist.

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Networking? I’d Rather Be Stuck in Mombasa Road Traffic with a Full Bladder

Let’s talk about networking. You know—those events where everyone looks like they walked straight out of a Safaricom ad.Suits perfectly pressed.Accents clearly imported.Confidence dialed up to full volume. Meanwhile, you’re standing in the corner thinking:“Hi… I run a small business… online… sometimes…”And silently praying the ground will open up and swallow you. I get it.I used to fear networking the way I fear missing my M-Pesa reversal window. Because here’s what usually happens:You enter the room and it feels like a silent competition. And me?I was just trying to remember my elevator pitch without sweating through my clothes. But here’s what I’ve learned—networking is not about being impressive. It’s about being real. You don’t need a foreign accent, a 10-page

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To My Fellow Millennials… Who Feel Like They’re Falling Behind

You’re 39. Or 42. And LinkedIn? Feels like a war zone. One scroll and it’s:“CEO at 35.”“Board member at Google and a triathlete.”Meanwhile, you’re sitting there in pajama pants thinking:“Did I miss a memo… or a lifetime subscription to success?” You did everything “right.”Went to school. Got the degrees. Worked hard.And still… no corner office.No title.No driver.Not even a free lunch. Here’s what I want you to hear loud and clear: You are not behind. You’re just in a plot twist. Maybe you didn’t get handed the C-suite.Maybe you’re supposed to build your own damn office.With windows. Plants. And emotional safety. This is not the time to shrink and binge motivational quotes like snacks.This is the time to repackage, rebrand, reroute. Take the course.Write the book.Send

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